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Don't tell people what they can do to change their life, they are still trying to deal with the way things are. If You can help them with the life they have that is more helpful than telling them how to change their life. Dont add to the burdens, subtract from them.
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Monday, November 28, 2011
A Little Help From A Friend
Sometime's You just need a friend to listen~
not to pass judgment, not have opinions of You, not try to change your life by making your burdens more... but to help you with your life especially when
there are so many things weighing you down.
People think they can fix your problems by making you fix them (you can spend more money, you can add more liability- You can change your life-if not heres a guilt trip so you have no choice!) sometimes you just need people to listen, not talk and not add guilt to your already overwhelmed life. Do whats in Your heart, it would be nice to ask for help- but not if the help looks like this: You Help Yourself at any cost both emotionally and financially- Thats not help and to think all you really wanted is someone to talk to, especially when your alone. If advise feels like its adding to your already over-burdened life, in the end just listen to your heart because nobody could ever walk in your shoes and know what is best for You by which all things around you exist. ~Angel Cher
not to pass judgment, not have opinions of You, not try to change your life by making your burdens more... but to help you with your life especially when
there are so many things weighing you down.
People think they can fix your problems by making you fix them (you can spend more money, you can add more liability- You can change your life-if not heres a guilt trip so you have no choice!) sometimes you just need people to listen, not talk and not add guilt to your already overwhelmed life. Do whats in Your heart, it would be nice to ask for help- but not if the help looks like this: You Help Yourself at any cost both emotionally and financially- Thats not help and to think all you really wanted is someone to talk to, especially when your alone. If advise feels like its adding to your already over-burdened life, in the end just listen to your heart because nobody could ever walk in your shoes and know what is best for You by which all things around you exist. ~Angel Cher
Wednesday, November 16, 2011
Sunday, November 13, 2011
A Vessel For Our Lord
"Our life should Be a Vessel (through which Our Lord is seen)
and not seek itself"
... A Vessel through which Our Lord Jesus is vindicated and glorified, not that which seeks it's own vindication or pride, in this way we can say all that we do is for the love of God so nothing we are too proud to do is above us, but do it int the name of Our Lord Jesus because all that is done in the name of our Lord is bigger than pride, Its to rise above the things of this world and to let Christ live through You.
"My Possessions are not my own, I give to You the possessions of Our Lord,
My heart, My money, My gifts, they all are from My Lord Jesus Christ."
Our Lord will come like a thief in the night when He does I want
to be able to say to Him "I gave away all the gifts You gave me, My Lord and Savour."
Our master Said: "Because You were Faithful in small matters, I will give You big responsibility" and You will share in the master's joy.
and not seek itself"
... A Vessel through which Our Lord Jesus is vindicated and glorified, not that which seeks it's own vindication or pride, in this way we can say all that we do is for the love of God so nothing we are too proud to do is above us, but do it int the name of Our Lord Jesus because all that is done in the name of our Lord is bigger than pride, Its to rise above the things of this world and to let Christ live through You.
"My Possessions are not my own, I give to You the possessions of Our Lord,
My heart, My money, My gifts, they all are from My Lord Jesus Christ."
Our Lord will come like a thief in the night when He does I want
to be able to say to Him "I gave away all the gifts You gave me, My Lord and Savour."
Our master Said: "Because You were Faithful in small matters, I will give You big responsibility" and You will share in the master's joy.
Saturday, November 12, 2011
Why I'm Sorry Fails
WHY I'M SORRY FAILS
"Allowing the initially hurt person to forget their feelings of pain and instead become responsible for the hurtful reactions they had- and having that same person have a big enough heart to care to reconcile - something is still missing, Its called LOVE, and its dying because the same person who initiated the pain is always the one who is being asked forgiveness, not always the one who cared to apologize at all. So I am sorry for my words or actions that offended you, that is what I am responsible for, because I care about not causing others pain."
Before it didn't matter to reconcile something for the heck of it not destroying YOU there was someone feeling pain and instead you accused them, never seeing the pain you caused them, they felt betrayed and uncared for, they felt they had nothing, but you only cared to further hurt them, WHY do people not see pain and instead accuse the person of hatred? get them all upset, get them to the point of saying things they never wanted to say and then hold that person so liable for causing them pain that they shut them out and NEVER ever apologize for the initial pain they really unmistakingly caused them, then it all becomes fake, the person attacked in the heart apologizes and all the pain still sits inside goes unreconciled and they live with the fact it never mattered to the other person at all. Its so sad. Truth is the only way a victim of pain can go on now as a result is to apologize to a person who hurt them so bad... most often only because those who believe in God saw Jesus destroyed by people that just didn't care and He forgave everyone of them and never asked them "Why don't you love Me?" didn't matter if they did, He loved them and thats what mattered to God. Its for God, not man that we forgive, even when we are not even asked for an apology, and that we apologize even when they are not sorry. In a better world that we just don't live in, maybe people can just stop causing pain for no other reason than carelessness.
"Allowing the initially hurt person to forget their feelings of pain and instead become responsible for the hurtful reactions they had- and having that same person have a big enough heart to care to reconcile - something is still missing, Its called LOVE, and its dying because the same person who initiated the pain is always the one who is being asked forgiveness, not always the one who cared to apologize at all. So I am sorry for my words or actions that offended you, that is what I am responsible for, because I care about not causing others pain."
Before it didn't matter to reconcile something for the heck of it not destroying YOU there was someone feeling pain and instead you accused them, never seeing the pain you caused them, they felt betrayed and uncared for, they felt they had nothing, but you only cared to further hurt them, WHY do people not see pain and instead accuse the person of hatred? get them all upset, get them to the point of saying things they never wanted to say and then hold that person so liable for causing them pain that they shut them out and NEVER ever apologize for the initial pain they really unmistakingly caused them, then it all becomes fake, the person attacked in the heart apologizes and all the pain still sits inside goes unreconciled and they live with the fact it never mattered to the other person at all. Its so sad. Truth is the only way a victim of pain can go on now as a result is to apologize to a person who hurt them so bad... most often only because those who believe in God saw Jesus destroyed by people that just didn't care and He forgave everyone of them and never asked them "Why don't you love Me?" didn't matter if they did, He loved them and thats what mattered to God. Its for God, not man that we forgive, even when we are not even asked for an apology, and that we apologize even when they are not sorry. In a better world that we just don't live in, maybe people can just stop causing pain for no other reason than carelessness.
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