First Seek Forgiveness

It can be hard to forgive, when not asked to... so people choose to repent due to the inability to forgive, It would be really nice if people would give those they offended the right permission to forgive them... otherwise, they just may never know they were already forgiven.God wants you to be forgiven, not only by Him but by loved ones and friends- But He also wants You to forgive not repent for your inability to. a bigger person will ask God for the strength to seek forgiveness so that they can be forgiven and it gives those forgiving them the graces God has for them. I personally just say: "Let's move on."  in that way they may not need to seek forgiveness and you wont just be stuck repenting for not forgiving...because usually both have offended.